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Vetting & Alt-Dating

Trying to navigate what fetish dating and relating looks like can be overwhelming. New relationships are already daunting as is, and now we're looking to date where we're asking someone to do "the thing" that we've always wanted to ask for. It's delightfully complicated just as much as it is liberating. I  provide 1 on 1 consulting on how to vet for alternative relationships, especially for those with niche, potentially risky, desires. I'll talk through how to meet people, how to vet them and their histories so you can make as much of an informed decision as possible about whether to move forward in said connection. It's important that we understand what it means to risk into of the activities that we'd like to do and how to communicate that clearly to a potential partner. It's imminent that we try to be as safe as possible while we explore ourselves.


I am not a licensed therapist.


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Polyamorous & Non-Monogamous Dating

Are you considering opening your relationship? Curious about non-monogamy? I've been practicing polyamory for over 10 years with extensive experience in the communication styles non-monogamy takes and discovering what type of open relationship will work best for all who are involved. There is no one way to have an open relationship. Us polys do more of a "create-your-own" style of relationship through consistent communication with fierce intention to uphold relationship agreements. Through personal experience, I can help navigate what "open" may look like and mean to you. I provide these private sessions with individuals, couples, polycules, multi-partner dynamics and play partners.


I am not a licensed therapist.


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$50 New Client Consultation

Required 1 hour $50 consultation for all new clients to make sure we're a right fit to work together. Should all go well, you can use the $50 towards your first session with me.

$200-$500 Per Hour

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